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Eye Contact and Autism: Why Some Children Look Away

Eye Contact and Autism: Why Some Children Look Away

Children with autism often avoid eye contact because it can be overwhelming and uncomfortable. This behavior is linked to sensory sensitivities, brain processing differences, and social communication challenges—not a lack of interest or rudeness.

The Science Behind Eye Contact Avoidance

  • Sensory Overload: Direct eye contact can trigger sensory overload in children with autism. Their brains may process eye gaze as intense or threatening, causing discomfort and avoidance. 
  • Brain Activity: Studies show that areas like the amygdala, responsible for processing emotions, become overactive during eye contact in autistic individuals. This heightened activity can make eye contact feel stressful. 
  • Cognitive Load: Maintaining eye contact requires mental effort. Many autistic children avoid it to focus better on understanding and responding to conversations. 
  • Social Nuances: Eye contact involves complex social rules. Children with autism may find these hard to interpret, leading to anxiety and avoidance.

Families we work with often share how their children avoid eye contact at first but gradually become more comfortable through tailored ABA therapy. One parent noted their child now uses brief eye contact to connect during playtime, showing progress in social engagement.

Why do children with autism avoid eye contact? It’s a natural response to sensory and social challenges. To support your child’s unique communication style, contact Precious Care ABA for a personalized evaluation and therapy plan designed to help them thrive.

 

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